As a society, we interact with people daily. At first glance, it might seem easy to approach someone we don’t know. However, some fear ridicule, others freeze when they have to speak in front of a group, or they are simply shy, but in reality, we all face obstacles when meeting new people. Every human being can be afraid of being rejected or judged, of showing vulnerability, or even experiencing stress during a moment of silence. Furthermore, a person might recall negative past experiences that resurface at any moment, preventing them from connecting with others. Some experience minor difficulties, while others will have to learn everything from scratch.
How does the animal-assisted therapist use the animal to establish initial contact?
First, the animal often initiates the first contacts through its approach. The relationship often begins with smiles, glances, or even play that doesn’t involve direct contact. While respecting the person’s pace, gentle physical or even visual contact with the animal can be initiated. The synergy between the two can develop thanks to the animal’s non-judgmental attitude towards the person’s emotions and its way of approaching them. We can conclude that the patient’s barriers will gently lower to create a trusting relationship with the animal.
And how can the animal-assisted therapist help the patient develop a desire to connect and enjoy staying connected?
Firstly, the animal-assisted therapist’s job is to choose the right feathered or furry individual that respects the pace and space of the person being met, while being gentle in its approach. It is not uncommon for the patient to project the qualities attributed to the animal onto the therapist, thus creating a favorable situation for in-depth exchanges between the practitioner and the patient. Gradually, they will let down their barriers in the relationship with the specialist due to the benefits of the animal’s presence.
How to facilitate and initiate interactions with people unknown to the patient?
Once trust is established between the animal-assisted therapist, the animal, and the patient, the latter is finally ready to use the acquired tools to work on aspects such as self-esteem and self-confidence with unknown people. The animal’s presence will facilitate conversation with a stranger as it will provide entertainment and a topic of discussion. Stress will thus be reduced, and the relationship facilitated. They will gain more and more self-confidence and will be able to acquire ease in interacting and appreciating the relationship, no matter who is by their side. They can even gain the ability to make eye contact, engage in conversation, smile, and awaken their curiosity towards others, all while feeling in control and secure.
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